Would you change for the person you loved? Because for me the people I love are absolute everything, I'm pretty sure I'd murder for them (or at least cover one up) and I'm quite sure I'd sacrifice a whole lot for them. So what about little bit's of my self? Surprising despite the whole subculture of that you can't change people, I'm quite sure I'd change on purpose for the person I love. I'd do everything else. Compared to that it is a little thing.
I'm sure you'd say that if they loved me they wouldn't ask that of me, but love ain't pure, it's passionate and jealous; love covers a range of emotions and most of them dangerous. I think I'd be willing to do that, to change; for them.
I know a lot of people just skim my blog without commenting, once in a while, but for this I want replies, call it a survey if you wish. I want to know your opinion, even anonymously. Please.
Would you change for the people you love? Think about it.
Saturday, 20 June 2009
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I wouldn't change for the person/people I love. It's hard to change and to let go of old habits.
And if they were changing themselves for someone they love, what would they do if that someone were to move away or die unexceptantly? They wouldn't know what to do (Well, that's what I think anyway).
Though, changing can sometimes be a positive turn for that person, but again, old habits could get in the way.
Yes. No doubt in my mind, though I'll add the caveat that I wouldn't do it if meant becoming a worse person (though if someone you love wants you to be a worse person there's something wrong).
Actually, Micky and I had a conversation about this topic.
Micky says if the person loves somebody so much that it is suicidal to live without them, then that person wouldn't change the otehr for the worse.
I say that I would change, but it depends how the change would be.
Answer: Yes
But would you do that for me?
I would change for the sake of the relationship with a person I love, as well as for my own sake. I wouldn't become someone else, though
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